Kids’ behavior and thinkings may affect their personality in future. Excessive anger or stubborn behavior can make them aggressive in their youth age. So, parents need little extra care for short-tempered kids.
Psychologists say that a little anger or obstinance for something is normal for kids. But teasing others mentally or physically or throwing things, breaking them with anger, these type habits should not be neglected by parents. In these conditions anger management is quite necessary for kids. Hence, these habits would not affect their life in future.
Why Kids Become Short-tempered?
Kids are not short-tempered since birth. Many circumstances are responsible for making them aggressive. Let us have a look at some of these circumstances:
Lack of Security
Those kids who spend comparatively less time with parents and feel loneliness most of time, they get a feeling of insecurity. Cause of this feeling their behavior becomes short-tempered aggressive. They become jealous. So they tend to do nonsense things like pushing someone, biting, hrting others, pouncing, pulling hairor teasing some innocent animals.
Some kids have high energy level than other common kids. So they need to do some physical activities. If they do not get chances and proper activities, they become fractious. Psychologists say that this kind kids try to hurt others physically. Outdoor activities are good for these kids.
At a Particular Moment
At a particular moment of life kids may be aggresssive. For example- if a new kid enters in their friend circle or they have to share there toys with other kids. These are some main reasons responsible to make them aggressive or fractious.
If parents do not pay attention and do not support them imotionally when they are in need, do not attend their school parental activities, kids are hurt. They do not forget these things easily. This may increase their tendency to become aggressive in future.
Anger Management Tips-
Parents may consult with a counselorto manage kids’ anger. But they should try at their own level also. Here are few tips to manage kids’ anger-
-Spend enough time with kids. Do not let them feel insecure.
-Tell them about family values, relations, and feelings. Make them feel secure, hence, their feeling may get a right direction.
-Encourage them to participate in their favorite activities. It will keep them away from negative thoughts
-Tell them to be angry is not a bad thing but it should be within a limit. Inpire them to write a daily diary and to write their feelings honestly in it. thus, you may come up with main reasons for their anger.
– Suggest them some activities for anger management. These activities will absorb their negative energy.You may suggest them rope skipping, basket ball playing, swimming etc.
-Inspire them to read inspirational books.
-Suggest them to participate in art activities like painting, dancing etc.