There are many unnecessary do’s and don’ts when it comes to first dates especially when it comes to what to do at the end of them.
First dates. Now, there’s two words that will make most people nervous. Going out with someone for the first time is always foreign territory, and you can never be sure how it will go. Once the date is under way, you’ll probably start to worry about how to wrap things up too! So to prevent you from being put off of dating for life, we’ve put together some advice on how to handle every kind of date there is. If you find dating frustrating, why not treat yourself to a night with an escort who will make sure you have a fantastic night while providing you with some practice for the real thing?
If you’re feeling friendly
If you’ve never met your date before your first outing together, it can take a bit of time to feel comfortable around each other. In this instance, a handshake or a quick kiss on the cheek is going to be the best way of saying goodbye. Don’t worry if there’s a little bit of awkwardness you’ve only just met! Exchange phone numbers or email addresses and see how things go. Remember, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to keep your options open. You don’t have to end a date with a big romantic moment if you’re not feeling that way just yet.
If you’re feeling romantic
If things are definitely hotting up, then a lingering kiss is the perfect way to finish your date. You can judge if your date is in the mood for a kiss by looking at how they’re behaving. Are they getting more touchy feely as the night goes on? Are they making a lot of eye contact? Are they keen to talk about your next encounter? If you answered yes to any of those, then it looks like you’ve got some serious potential on your hands. So, at the end of the date, lean in for the kiss that has been in the works all evening. Just don’t go in all guns blazing and clash teeth like a teenager!
If you’re feeling hot under the collar
A lot of people are wary of sleeping together on the first date, but there’s no need to be. Many think that having sex early on will somehow make your date think less of you, but that’s just not true. In fact, 67% of men maintain that sex on a first date doesn’t lead to a lack of respect. So if you’re both feeling in the mood, go for it! After all, the earlier you start, the quicker you’ll get to know what each other likes. As long as there’s communication, consent and no morning-after regrets, then sleeping together is a perfectly acceptable way of bringing a date to a close.
Just enjoy yourself!
The most important thing to remember on a first date is to keep it fun and casual. Like we said earlier, a first date is a real step into the unknown. Some go badly, some go well and some go brilliantly.
As long as you put all expectations to one side and focus on enjoying yourself as much as possible, things will progress at their own pace. So if there’s someone you have your eye on but you haven’t plucked up the courage to ask them out do it! After all, what do you have to lose?