As the old song sings, They say that breaking up is hard to do
Yes, it is; breaking up is hard to do, especially when you really care about the other person. However, regardless of the reason or reasons for the breakup once it happens and you and or your ex have determined that there is no getting back together to reestablish the relationship as a couple it is time to move on.
Moving on is not so easy for some either. When you really love someone, and your relationship suffers, a break up it can be devastating. It can feel as if the rug of love disappears right out from under you. Sometimes unexpected, other times it may be just a flash of intuition that something is off balance. The circumstances may vary from one couple to another. However, the pain and bewildering feelings are somewhat common for many people.
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The first thing you need to understand is that it will take time for you to get over the relationship break up. This is normal and it is all right to feel sad and cry it out. Tears are a form of cleansing our souls. The heart and mind are relieved and better able to continue after a good cry, so go ahead and let it all out. You can scream and cry if you like, however, if and when you do it is best to find a solitary spot so you can give it a go and not have to stress about anyone hearing you. When you are all alone, you are better able to let it all out.
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Another good idea is to talk with a trusted friend about the way you feel. Talk to him or her and then allow them to listen to you. Whether or not he or she offers feedback, will depend on you, your friend, and the situation. However, once you get it all out, there is no need to repeat the story of your broken heart repeatedly. Eventually, even your friends will become bored with the issue. This is why it is better for you to let it all out while having a good cleansing cry. It is all right to acknowledge it, feels it, owns it and then gets over it.
If you are allowing yourself to continue yearning in grief for a lost love for an overly extended time, it seems that you may have forgotten something very important. You cannot sit and cry about it forever since that rarely produces anything beneficial. No, what you need to do is get up, dust yourself off, wipe away those tears, wash your face, fix your hair, do your makeup if you choose to wear any and then do something.
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Find something to do that will occupy your mind. It can be any number of things. Reading and memorizing quotes about moving on are especially helpful as are other types of affirmation quotes that foster encouragement for remembering the most important thing in life. If for some reason you feel lost along your path, you need to remember that the most important thing in life is too love yourself as well as you do others.
Now is the time to to consider that you can never ever make up for lost time…
Now is the time to remember just how special you are!
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