Unfortunately, there are times in life when we have to know what to say in a sympathy card to convey our sorrow. When someone dies, has terminal illness, or suffers tragedy, few words can be written to convey the feelings you have, especially when youre going to write to a close friend, family member, or loved one. In this article, Id like to go over some of the things to write in a sympathy card when a father or mother dies or faces severe suffering. Listed below are some samples that you can use. Some are religious in nature, so just skip those ones it thats not your thing.
· I am here for you and love you.
· You are in my thoughts and prayers
· With deepest sympathy
· I will never forget (name of deceased person)
· Let me know if theres anything I can do to help you or your family
· I am sorry for your loss
· (name of deceased) lived life to the fullest
· I always loved (him, her, or name)
· God is watching over (person with terminal illness) and you right now
· My condolences to you and your family
· With love and caring
· My heart goes out to you during your time of need
· The world lost a wonderful person
· God has bigger plans for (name of the person that died)
· I wish there was more I could do to help you during your time of need
· I am sorry for your loss
· I remember when (name) did (refer to a specific incident of fond memory)
· I have fond memories of (person deceased)
· He has helped me so much over the years
· Remember him in your heart and he will never die
· You will see him again in heaven
· There was never a better person on this earth
When a person dies or suffers a tragedy, such as a family member being in a serious accident or injured, there are only so much you can do with your words. Listed below are a few things you can do as alternatives to the list above.
· Quote poem or song verses that convey a message of sorrow or remind you of the person that recently died or suffered.
· Send a card with a note in it and bring food to the survivors home. Food is commonly accepted as a comfort by most.
· Make a donation in the name of the person that has passed away.
· Put together a photo collection or scrapbook to use as a memorial of sorts for the departed. Looking through pictures can be therapeutic to some extent, and can get the survivor focused on the good times and not the current situation.
· Offer to watch children, help out with funeral arrangements, or any other tasks that need to be completed.
In some cases, the actions we take speak louder than the words we write. The samples and examples provided are nothing more than a guide. Its hard to know what to say in a sympathy card when someone dies or their loved one has a terminal illness, so just write from the heart.